Losing a relationship can be one of the most painful things in life. We share our most real and vulnerable parts of ourselves, and often some of our best and worst times. We form deep bonds with those we love and when those bonds break, it can be unbearably painful. If you’re experiencing the end of a relationship, here are some ways to engage with your grief and care for yourself through the pain
Read MoreHave you ever found yourself wondering why people act the way they do? Or why you interpret someone's actions in a certain way? Attribution theory can help answer these questions and give us a deeper understanding of how our perceptions can shape our relationships.
Read MoreHeadaches are common, but when they’re chronic or seem to arrive during times of stress, they often indicate a deeper connection between the body and mental health. Anxiety is known to have a significant impact on the body, and one of the ways it manifests is through headaches. Understanding how anxiety and headaches interact can offer insight into both management and relief.
Read MoreTrust is often described as the foundation of a healthy relationship—a space where both partners feel safe, understood, and supported. But what happens when dishonesty cracks that foundation? While repairing trust after lies is challenging, it’s not impossible. With patience, empathy, and effort, couples can rebuild trust and even strengthen their relationship in the process.
Read MoreAttachment in romantic relationships profoundly shapes how partners interact, communicate, and support one another. Our approaches to intimacy, trust, and openness are heavily influenced by attachment styles that usually form in childhood and often carry into adult partnerships. Let’s cover four attachment styles and some steps you can take to build a secure, lasting bond.
Read MoreSelf Space therapist and owner Rachel Lund recently wrote an article for Kirkland Lifestyle Magazine about how to handle the potentially difficult conversations conversations with family members that might arise over the holidays.
Read MoreHuffPost recently featured Self Space therapist Dan Suffoletta in an article about why giving the silent treatment isn’t a productive tactic in relationships — and what you can do during conflicts instead.
Read MoreWhen people think of depression, they often picture sadness, crying, and a persistent sense of hopelessness. But depression can manifest in many ways—some of which might be less obvious. Understanding these lesser-known symptoms can help us recognize when someone might be struggling, even if they don’t fit the stereotypical image of depression. Here are a few signs that may fly under the radar:
Read MoreAnxiety is a common mental health experience, but not all anxiety looks the same. One variation that often goes unrecognized is high functioning anxiety. Unlike more visible forms of anxiety, people with high functioning anxiety may appear calm, composed, and even highly successful on the surface. Yet beneath that exterior lies a constant undercurrent of worry and self-doubt.
Read MoreTrauma can impact every aspect of a person’s life, from emotional well-being to physical health. Finding the right therapy can be a crucial part of the healing process, but with so many options, it can be hard to know where to start. Here are some of the most effective therapy modalities for trauma:
Read MoreBoundaries are essential to any healthy relationship. They create safety, trust, and respect by defining where one person ends and another begins—emotionally, mentally, and physically. Without them, misunderstandings, resentment, and conflict easily arise. We’ll explore why setting and respecting boundaries is so crucial and how it can actually strengthen your connection with your partner.
Read MoreIn most healthcare training programs, professionals are educated on the importance of recognizing biases related to race, gender, sexual orientation, ability, and other marginalized groups. However, weight bias often goes overlooked, despite its significant impact on patient care.
Read MoreWhen you’re experiencing depression, finding motivation for even the smallest tasks can feel overwhelming. Depression can sap your energy, affect your ability to focus, and make once-enjoyable activities seem impossible. That said, there are ways to gently push forward, even on the hardest days. Here are 10 strategies to help you find motivation when depression feels like it’s holding you back.
Read MoreFinding a therapist can be transformative. Searching for a therapist, however, can feel overwhelming—especially in a city like Seattle where options—not to mention traffic, bridges, and bodies of water dividing the city—abound. Whether you're looking for help with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or personal growth, this guide will help you find the right therapist for you.
Read MoreAt Self Space, we understand that finding mental health support can sometimes feel out of reach—especially when cost is a concern. That’s why we are excited to announce our expanded offerings for low-cost therapy services. With the addition of 8 new interns, we’re more equipped than ever to help you access the care you need at a price you can afford.
Read MoreTalking to your child about their mental health can feel overwhelming. As parents, we want to protect our kids, but sometimes, shielding them from difficult conversations about their emotional well-being can do more harm than good. Encouraging open dialogue and creating a supportive environment are essential for helping children navigate their mental health struggles.
Read MoreAs back-to-school season approaches, many people—students, parents, and even teachers—can experience a surge of anxiety. Whether it’s the pressure of new academic challenges, social transitions, or simply the shift in routine, this time of year can be overwhelming. Here are some tips to help ease the stress of the new school year:
Read MoreWhen it comes to relationships, everyone has their limits—those non-negotiable boundaries that, if crossed, can spell the end of a partnership. These "deal breakers" are deeply personal, but some are more universal than others. Understanding these red flags can help you navigate your relationship more effectively and ensure that both you and your partner are on the same page.
Read MoreHuffPost discussed the concept of “toxic forgiveness” with Self Space therapist Emily West, who explained that this kind of “pressured or superficial forgiveness” can actually be detrimental to everyone involved, as well as the relationship as a whole.
Read MorePsychoanalytic therapy has long been one of the most intriguing and complex approaches to understanding the human mind. Rooted in the work of Sigmund Freud, this form of therapy delves deep into the unconscious to uncover the thoughts, feelings, and memories that influence our behaviors and emotions. But what exactly is psychoanalytic therapy, and how does it work in practice?
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