Why Conversations about Health are so Confusing

If you look up the definition of health, you will likely see descriptions of a person having total physical, emotional, and mental well-being. But even this definition continues to be updated and built upon. The World Health Organization first amended this definition in the 1980s by adding that health indicates a positive sense of personal resources. In 2021, they again extended the definition to also include a person’s ability to adapt to stress and highlighted how spiritual, environmental, and social components leave an impact on health (Felmen, 2025). Through these updates and revisions, it’s clear to see that finding one singular explanation of health is challenging. Especially when you include larger cultural ideas regarding health. 

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therapyAmanda Kieser
Learning to Slow Down: What My First Year as a Therapist Taught Me

When I started my journey as a therapist, I carried a mix of excitement and uncertainty. I knew why I was here. I wanted to become the kind of person I didn’t have supporting me while growing up. As an Asian American man, therapy wasn’t something we talked about in my community or in my family. There was a strong message, spoken and unspoken: push through, don’t complain, keep the family in mind. Emotions were often seen as distractions, even threats to harmony. So when I first found the language to describe my own internal experience in college, it was like a dam breaking.

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therapyMark Ponce
Building and Repairing Trust in Relationships

In one of our recent blog posts, we talked about how couples can begin repairing trust after lies. That piece resonated with so many of you, and it makes sense. Trust is at the core of every healthy relationship, and when it’s broken, the path forward can feel uncertain.

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Self Space
Return to the Table

Food is everywhere. It’s not just about nutrition or fuel. It’s tied to memory, family, culture, identity, and control. It can be a source of joy, or it can be a place of shame and guilt. For many people, it’s both.

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Amanda Kieser
From Finance Guy to Therapist

Tucker opens up about his journey from finance and chronic pain to somatic therapy and meaningful work. In this honest reflection, he shares how ignoring his body nearly broke him, and how learning to listen changed everything. His story offers a new vision of masculinity rooted in presence, vulnerability, and self-trust.

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Self Space
How can art help people heal in therapy?

In this reflection, therapist Becca Reynolds explores how art can help us access deeper truths, confront internalized self-doubt, and reconnect with parts of ourselves we've learned to ignore. Through her personal and clinical lens, she shares why integrating creative expression into therapy might be more essential than we think.

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Self Space
Finding the Right Therapist as an LGBTQIA+ Person

Finding the right therapist can be challenging for anyone, but for LGBTQIA+ individuals, the search often comes with added concerns. Will the therapist understand your identity? Will they be supportive of your experiences? Can you truly be yourself in sessions? Therapy should be a safe, affirming space where you feel seen, heard, and respected. Whether you are navigating gender identity, coming out, relationships, or mental health struggles, working with a therapist who understands the unique challenges of the LGBTQIA+ community can make all the difference. This guide will help you find a therapist who is the right fit for you.

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Self Space
Why Therapists Care About the Past

You might come to therapy because something in your life isn’t working. A problem has been bothering you enough that you finally decide to seek the help of a trained professional. After talking for a while, you naturally want to know: What can I do to fix this? Doesn’t your therapist have a clear, well-crafted solution you can implement right away?

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Self Space